Samuel C. Blackman, MD, PhD

I have wondered this over the years. My undergraduate degree in philosophy included a course in aesthetics, and since then the question has bubbled up from time to time as I made my way from medical school, to a pediatric residency, to a fellowship in pediatric oncology.

There have been encounters along that road that qualified as awe-inspiring-from the resiliency of children and their families to the relentless pace of scientific advancement, the seemingly endless complexity of tumors, and the innovation of new therapeutic modalities. There are, of course, innumerable encounters that are soulful, desperate, and heart-rending.

When I’d think about beauty in medicine, my mind would turn to the microscopic beauty of cancer-from the histology textbooks that captivated me 30 years ago to today’s splendid confocal microscopic images that have been turned into biotechnology pin-up calendars. But in practice, the images in the microscope were most often reduced to being “informative” or “unusual.” Sheets of leukemic blasts, the small round blue cells of sarcoma, the wisps of a pilocytic astrocytoma. They’d warrant a glance. A notation in the chart. Next case, please.

As a second-year pediatric resident, if there was beauty in my world, I was simply too tired to see it. And don’t confuse cute with beauty. Sick kids-even really sick kids-can be cute. But disease isn’t cute. And parents certainly aren’t cute. Parents are terrified and scared for the life of their child. Parents want some element of control. What they don’t want is a second-year resident. And at the time, they certainly did not want me. Between the crushing fatigue, the ever-present fear of making an error, and the constant nagging feeling that I would never know enough, not only was there no beauty, my world was actually getting uglier. There were shameful moments where frustration and fatigue got the best of me and my words hurt the people I was trying to help.

As someone who so desperately wanted to be a doctor, I had lost sight of my best self. I felt that I was failing. I wasn’t the doctor I hoped to be.

Brianna’s mother took this feeling to a new level. The whole team suffered her wrath, and we knew why: Her daughter was dying and there was nothing we could do. She had: The. Worst. Tumor. Ever. A diffuse intrinsic pontine glioma-a bastard of a tumor if there ever was one. Always inoperable. Chemo- and radio-resistant. One hundred percent fatal. A median of eight months survival from diagnosis.

Her fury at the disease, being a single mother left to contend with it, manifested itself daily as seething contempt for all of us on the oncology service. She kept the glass room door closed and the curtains drawn and wouldn’t let the team in for rounds. She wouldn’t even let us examine Brianna-she saw no point. We’d stand outside the closed door discussing the day’s labs and the clinical plan, and we’d beg to come in and talk to her, but she’d refuse. Except when she wanted us to use her own treatment plan. Then, we’d negotiate. Her homemade herbal teas? Fine. Could she skip the steroids and blood pressure medicines? No. Could she give Brianna coffee enemas?

Coffee enemas. We had a week-long debate because she wanted to give daily coffee enemas. My attending had never heard of this and asked me to research it (it’s apparently a thing). He sent me into “the room” to explain to Brianna’s mom why we couldn’t allow her to do this. But because I took her request seriously and presented arguments both for and against, she let me in-literally.

From that day on, until I was off-service, I was the only person allowed in. I would examine Brianna, discuss the treatment plan, and relay it to the team. For a few weeks, I was, exclusively, Brianna’s doctor. But rotations end, and teams change. Soon I was off to the next thing. Neonatal ICU, cardiology, I can’t remember.

A month later, my wife and I were driving home from dinner one Saturday night when my pager sounded. It was a nurse from “The Pavilion”-the corner of the hospital where palliative care patients stay. She thought Brianna was dying and asked me to come in. I wasn’t on-call but sensed I should be there. En route, I called the attending and asked him to meet me because I had never been present for a death, but I knew one of the horrible details of pediatric oncology: children take a long time to die. The strength of their hearts and lungs allow their bodies to fight for a hold onto life.

It was after 10 p.m. The hall lights were dimmed, and the building had that midnight peacefulness that I usually enjoyed in hospitals. But in this remote corner of the hospital, on this particular night, the darkness was intimidating.

For the next four hours we did our job: we attended to Brianna’s needs. We administered sedation to ease her breathing and morphine to relieve her pain. And when we could do no more, we stood outside the room and simply bore witness.

When the nurse checked in the room and returned to say she thought Brianna had stopped breathing, my attending said that I should go and pronounce her dead. Her mother knew me and seemed to trust me. But I had never done this before, and I didn’t know what to expect.

I quietly entered the room and whispered that I need to examine Brianna one last time, and then I performed our ritual: I placed my stethoscope on her chest and listed for a full 60 seconds for the absence of a heartbeat and breathing. I noted the time of death. I told her mother that I that I was so sorry for her loss.

And then, as I was preparing to leave, I stopped and asked, “Is there anything I can do for you?”

She thought for a minute and then said, simply, “Could you pray with me?”

I paused, because I’m a lapsed Jew from New Jersey. I don’t pray. I don’t believe in God. And the death of a child seemed so unjust that pretending to pray seemed the absolute wrong thing to do. But in that moment, it dawned on me: This was not about my feelings of discomfort. Brianna’s mother saw me as her doctor-the one she needed. The type of doctor I had always hoped to be.

So there, in a dark room lit by a silent bank of monitors, I had my one truly beautiful moment in medicine. When a stranger took my hands in hers, and the two of us stood over the body of her daughter, when I closed my eyes with her. And when she spoke, words I had heard only a few times before came forth from me too: “Our Father, which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven …”



name of the patient has been changed to preserve privacy.

Samuel Blackman, MD, PhD, is a pediatric hematologist/oncologist in Seattle, Wash., who also works in biotechnology on early-stage development of new cancer therapeutics as head of clinical development for Silverback Therapeutics.

Blackman says his decision to go into medicine stemmed from his undergraduate philosophy studies. “After thinking about medicine from the perspective of ethics and justice, I realized that I also loved the art and the science of medicine and the idea of being a physician,” he says.

As a physician, Blackman loves that patients often feel inclined to freely share the most private details of their lives with him. “In a world that increasingly lacks authenticity, there remains something profoundly important about the connection between a doctor and patient,” he says.  

That’s especially the case as a pediatrician, when parents put their sick child in your hands for care, adds Blackman.

“As a parent, I now realize how remarkable that human transaction is, and how precious that trust is,” he says.

Outside of medicine, Blackman is an avid baker of bread as well as a performer at The Moth, a competitive storytelling forum held in and around Seattle. He just completed “The Laidlaw Trilogy” of novels by Scottish author William MacIlvaney and now reading “Inherited Disorders” by Adam Ehrlich Sachs. 

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